It's a common plight I hear over an over again- one person wants more than anything for their home to me more organized and their partner doesn't see the importance of it or is flat out against it. It can be a huge issue (or the manifestation of other issues), and it should be approached just like an other- with love, understanding, and compromise. As you know, I am a professional organizer, and having a home filled with order and organization is my preferred state of living.